I get the same thing! And then people have the cajones to tell me I'm being "selfish" if I don't give my son a sibling. How so?

1. He's loved and cared for in each and every way by both his parents and doesn't have to compete for our affection or attentions

2. We will be able to put something away for his college education

3. We are still able to have somewhat of a marriage, owing to the fact that his needs are met, which can only benefit him

Happy birthday, by the way!!! I'll have to update my LJ to reflect how mine went yesterday...